Mastery, Motivation, and Meaningful Growth

 

Blog Post – Week 05

This week’s focus on Mastery—Skill, Character, or Luck? really got me thinking about how success actually comes together. At first, I probably would’ve said skill and maybe luck play the biggest roles. But the more I studied and reflected, the more I realized that character—especially things like humility, persistence, and a willingness to learn—might be what really makes someone stand out in the long run.

 The Spreading Happiness case was a perfect example. Erica Mills didn’t build her greeting card business overnight, and she definitely didn’t do it just by getting lucky. She paid attention to the people around her, asked for feedback, and actually used it to improve. That takes confidence and humility, which isn’t always easy when you’re the one putting your work out into the world. I could really relate to that. I’m someone who likes to plan and do things "the right way," but sometimes that gets in the way of just starting and learning as I go. Mills’ story reminded me that it’s okay not to have everything figured out at the beginning. What matters is that you’re open to growing.

This tied in really well with the Personal Board of Advisors assignment. Thinking through who I would want to guide me—both personally and professionally—forced me to get honest about what kind of person I want to become. I chose people who are not only successful but thoughtful, grounded, and courageous. That exercise reminded me that I need to surround myself (even hypothetically) with people who challenge me, not just those who agree with me or make me feel comfortable.

Reflecting on this week, I’ve realized that I’m often too quick to judge my own progress based on results. But mastery is about staying the course, being open to feedback, and having the character to keep going when things get messy. It’s not just about talent or perfect timing—it’s about the little decisions we make every day that add up over time. I’m learning to give myself more grace in the process and to keep showing up, even when the path isn’t clear.


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